Stream of (very) bad luck in past 30 days...?

I would be emabarred to post the number of "bad" things that have happened to me in the past 30 days because of the "correlation" (it seems) to me personally, i.e., "Am I being tested by God" "Have I done something bad to deserve these things, etc?" I post this because I have had several things happening to me over the past month that really are bad, bad, bad, and I have not provoked any of them. My husband just says "it's situational" (I wish I had his calm disposition); however, TWO of my very good friends actually made comments centering around "how I am the common denominator, and indirectly asked questions centering around me provoking, purposely putting myself in these situations, and/or even making comments how it could correlate with something I've done. I'm upset, & it is fueling depression I'm 4.5 mos pregnant, 39 years old, and I'm considered high risk. I'm tryign to take care of myself not put myself in bad situations. Can anyone help with making me feel better?